Infantilism in Adults: The Phenomenon of the "Eternal Child" in Psychology and Society
Infantilism in adulthood is not just a domestic term for describing a frivolous person, but a complex psychological and socio-adaptive phenomenon. It is characterized by the retention of traits, behavioral models, and ways of thinking typical of earlier age periods in an adult. In the scientific discourse, this phenomenon is often referred to as psychosocial immaturity or personal immaturity, indicating its comprehensive nature, affecting the emotional, volitional, and social spheres.
Key Characteristics: Beyond Caprices
Infantilism manifests not in individual actions, but in systemic characteristics of the personality:
Emotional regulation (affective immaturity): Characteristic of the infantile adult is emotional lability — rapid, intense, often inadequate emotional reactions to situations (tantrums, grievances, elations). The external locus of control prevails: blame for failures is attributed to external circumstances ("the boss is picky", "others are lucky"), while successes are ascribed to oneself. The ability to delay gratification and patience is minimal. An interesting fact: neurobiological studies indicate a possible connection of such traits with less active prefrontal cortex, responsible for impulse control and long-term planning.
Cognitive style: Thinking is characterized by egocentrism — difficulty in taking the perspective of another person. The world is perceived through the prism of one's own desires and needs. Magical thinking is present — belief in the possibility of the desired coming true spontaneously, without effort, or through external forces ("it will all be fine", "they will save me").
Social and volitional sphere: There is no clear personal self-determination, life goals are vague or borrowed. There is a hyper-reliance on the social environment (parents, partner, friends) in solving domestic, financial, and emotional tasks. Responsibility for one's ...
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